Note :- This blog is for 'MunMun' only , read this at your own risk , u may get bore !
Well , this was one of most fascinating and memorable year of my life , i turned to be 8 year old in month of January. I can still recall some of events of that year , that triggered to me . My poor memory doesn't allow to recall all things happened around in same year ;(
School :-
1) Me,first time topping the half -yearly exam and annual exam , besides first time I got 67/70 and 96/100 marks in maths , so much good marks that every one praised me about , and suddenly i became hero in school from being an average guy .
2) My , class teacher being Mr. Jayveer sharma , who had fascinated me always , this year decided not to teach us tuition for some months , and i was almost crying .
3) My courage , to ask to Headmaster directly about giving me lesser marks in many subjects , after being motivated by Mr. Jayveer Sharma
4) I, being first time monitor of class.
fun and entertainment :-
This year brought lot of entertainment .
1) cricket world cup 96 , my first interaction with cricket , then sachin making so much runs , and from there itself I became ardent fan of him .I can remember quarter final in banglore 288 for india , then league match with west-indies in gwalior , semi-final in eden garden , srilanka 252 and then kambali weeping ;(
2) Most awaited comics " Rajnagar ki tabahi " , then I stealing 2 rupees for that ;) and became ardent fan of "Nagraj " too .
3) My interaction with Gulli-danda and kanche ,, playing gulli-danda in Dharmshala ground during rainy season in ground full of mud .
4) For comics things, some dark experiences too , i would better not like to discuss here ;(
Spirituality:- I , reading whole Ramcharit Manas , and having some spiritual experiences , Became fan of Lord Ram too
That all I can recall from that year > ;)
When u leave ur home and go to foreign land , both good and bad memories add to hard-disk of ur mind ! Blogs written here based on some of those memories , that r being added to me in these days during my malaysia stay ! comments are highly welcomed !
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Sunday, February 20, 2011
Is 'love' a verb or noun ?
love as verb : I love u
love as noun : love is beautiful .
Note :- here from word " love " by all mean , is love between teenagers , please don't mistake to think it " brother -sister love of 1980 , bollywood movie" or " mother-son love of mother-india"
This is the question in my mind from many days , but i am able to shape up my blinking thoughts today only .So , How do u see love as " verb " or as " noun " ?? U actually " act " the love , like u do the " eat " or love automatically happens to u ? Definitely second feeling is more beautiful and more lively . I will divide love-cycle into four phases
1. Initial phase
2. grown-up phase
3. maturity -phase
4.break-up phase
1. Initial phase : I don't believe in bollywood style platonic love , where hero , heroine gazes each other , and commit each other to live together for whole life . But , definitely there is big role of infatuation for fall in love , one gets attracted for other one's some virtue , may be its beauty , cuteness ,humorous, intelligence , smartness, thoughts matching , simplicity or sex :P , what so ever , depend on person to person . But in this phase definitely " love is a verb ." U get attracted , u feel good with him /her , but u " act" the love , u anyhow want to impress him /her , u " appreciate " , u "listen " , u " sacrifice " , though many moments come when u don't want to do same , and in this phase if some one other with same /grown-up virtue meets u , u may also get attracted towards her/him
2. Grown-up : That is most beautiful phase of love . Here love acts as "noun " , u dont " act" instead love "acts for " u , u are "acted upon " love . Here U sing song for her , U dance with her , U laugh with her , U automatically feel like listening her , sacrificing for her , appreciating for her .Any how U want to make her happy . Every small act of her looks beautiful to u , u feel like " u cant afford to loose her " , albeit Aishwarya -ray is proposing u .
3. Mature -phase : This is most critical phase of love . Well ,its been said " We are selfish , we cant love any one more than ourselves " . Its always correct in every context , every where . U are loving some one because " U want to be loved " .And if u dont feel same , forget about love " u first need to love urself to love other-self "
After second phase of love , ur love becomes mature , differences come between thoughts
but for some 'lucky ' people , their love in grown-up phase has been developed so strong that these minute disputes disappear by sweet fragrance of love , and they are out of this cycle .
For some 'unlucky' people , they say like " I don't feel same love any more , I don't feel passion for u , our love is being faded " so what should be action here ??
a) love is noun :: wait for same love to happen again , that eventually never happens and they go for phase-4
b) love is verb :: this is correct and wise action . u need to " act " love . Appreciate her ! Listen her ! Forgive her ! Sacrifice her ! . Empathize her ! Affirm her ! At this point if we start seeing love as verb , we will soon start feeling that warmth in cockles of heart . Love dies only when we dont know how to replenish its natural source if it dies it is because of our own error , betrayals . we must understand that love is an act of will named desire and action .If we do so we will see "love is noun" again and there is no phase-4
4. break-up phase :: Most painful phase . only 'idiotic' people passing through phase 3a) go through it . People who think " love as noun " in phase -3 are real looser like me ;(
love as noun : love is beautiful .
Note :- here from word " love " by all mean , is love between teenagers , please don't mistake to think it " brother -sister love of 1980 , bollywood movie" or " mother-son love of mother-india"
This is the question in my mind from many days , but i am able to shape up my blinking thoughts today only .So , How do u see love as " verb " or as " noun " ?? U actually " act " the love , like u do the " eat " or love automatically happens to u ? Definitely second feeling is more beautiful and more lively . I will divide love-cycle into four phases
1. Initial phase
2. grown-up phase
3. maturity -phase
4.break-up phase
1. Initial phase : I don't believe in bollywood style platonic love , where hero , heroine gazes each other , and commit each other to live together for whole life . But , definitely there is big role of infatuation for fall in love , one gets attracted for other one's some virtue , may be its beauty , cuteness ,humorous, intelligence , smartness, thoughts matching , simplicity or sex :P , what so ever , depend on person to person . But in this phase definitely " love is a verb ." U get attracted , u feel good with him /her , but u " act" the love , u anyhow want to impress him /her , u " appreciate " , u "listen " , u " sacrifice " , though many moments come when u don't want to do same , and in this phase if some one other with same /grown-up virtue meets u , u may also get attracted towards her/him
2. Grown-up : That is most beautiful phase of love . Here love acts as "noun " , u dont " act" instead love "acts for " u , u are "acted upon " love . Here U sing song for her , U dance with her , U laugh with her , U automatically feel like listening her , sacrificing for her , appreciating for her .Any how U want to make her happy . Every small act of her looks beautiful to u , u feel like " u cant afford to loose her " , albeit Aishwarya -ray is proposing u .
3. Mature -phase : This is most critical phase of love . Well ,its been said " We are selfish , we cant love any one more than ourselves " . Its always correct in every context , every where . U are loving some one because " U want to be loved " .And if u dont feel same , forget about love " u first need to love urself to love other-self "
After second phase of love , ur love becomes mature , differences come between thoughts
but for some 'lucky ' people , their love in grown-up phase has been developed so strong that these minute disputes disappear by sweet fragrance of love , and they are out of this cycle .
For some 'unlucky' people , they say like " I don't feel same love any more , I don't feel passion for u , our love is being faded " so what should be action here ??
a) love is noun :: wait for same love to happen again , that eventually never happens and they go for phase-4
b) love is verb :: this is correct and wise action . u need to " act " love . Appreciate her ! Listen her ! Forgive her ! Sacrifice her ! . Empathize her ! Affirm her ! At this point if we start seeing love as verb , we will soon start feeling that warmth in cockles of heart . Love dies only when we dont know how to replenish its natural source if it dies it is because of our own error , betrayals . we must understand that love is an act of will named desire and action .If we do so we will see "love is noun" again and there is no phase-4
4. break-up phase :: Most painful phase . only 'idiotic' people passing through phase 3a) go through it . People who think " love as noun " in phase -3 are real looser like me ;(
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